The most common method of enticing ladies is by communicating your feelings to them. But this takes a lot of guts, skills, time, and practice. The unfortunate reality is that most men don’t understand this and often blow their chances when their big moments arrive.
Not all men can easily develop creative and poetic pickup lines and phrases to pique their crush’s interest. However, the good news is that you don’t have to be Shakespeare before you can win a woman’s heart.
With many years of experience in helping male business owners who are not good at words attract their desired ladies, Jen Auh has mastered the art of enticing women nonverbally. So if you’d like to take the pressure off of attracting your crushes without having to talk constantly, you should follow the tips shared by Jen Auh in this exclusive interview.
Jen, what are some of the reasons why men end up being single for long?
Jen Auh: There are many reasons why men end up being single for a long period of time. Prominent among these reasons is shyness. Most men lack the confidence to approach ladies and communicate their feelings to them.
Thus, they resort to staying single since they know no other technique. Another reason for singleness in men is poor looks.
What are some of the subconscious things men do that women find attractive?
Jen Auh: More often than not, women are attracted to the little traits or gestures which a man exudes. And what’s even shocking is that the guy has no idea that he is doing something which is attracting a woman because that’s just how he is (which, of course, is part of what makes it so attractive).
Body language is the major turn-on for most women who have described what they find appealing about men.
Is it true that good looks alone can attract a woman to a man?
Jen Auh: Yes, looking good and clean is the surest way to entice a woman without uttering a word. Though attraction is not a conscious decision in itself, however, it can be triggered by an appropriate physical outlook.
The first thing a lady notices in you is your looks and dressing, which is why men are advised to invest in their outward appearances. Wear well-fitting clothes, invest in wardrobe staples, nice shoes, and good perfumes too.
Your appearance precedes your speech, and it goes a long way.
How will a man know if a woman finds him attractive?
Jen: The only way to know for sure if a girl likes you is when she expresses it explicitly. However, a general rule of thumb is that it is better to presume that she likes you until she says otherwise.
To believe otherwise could be detrimental to your confidence. There are a multitude of cues that can indicate if a woman finds you attractive. Some are standing very close to you, especially when she doesn’t have to, flicking or touching her hair a lot when you are looking and maintaining long eye contact with you and constantly trying to make conversation with you.
Can you share some secrets on how to win a woman’s heart without using words?
Jen: There are numerous ways to get the girl of your dreams to notice you without having to speak to her (well, at least at first). Some of the proven non-verbal ways include:
- Maintaining a good posture
- Maintaining good eye contact when necessary
- Not forcing, but giving a smile
- Dressing well
- Using good fragrances
- Being courageous.